OF PURPOSE

                           AND INSPIRATION

So today i got that feeling of self unworthiness.Am not usually that kind of person who goes around bearing and having such kind of low self esteem issues.But i did and for  sometime now that awful feeling has been hanging and buzzing around for sometime and then it goes as quickly as it came.


I know it comes to that point in our lives when we experience different  and mixed kind of  emotions.Those feelings that  drive us to to the farthest corner.Makes us feel like we are losing it,when we feel helpless and out of control.


So i sat down,after the feeling had gone,i.e,after a little bit of shedding of tears.I analyzed,searched and looked from every aspect what really caused me to go up to that point.Then i came across different and experiential possibilities.

1.The challenges we face and the struggles we go through
Sometimes you go through a lot of challenges that before you realize they have made you  a completely different person.The way we  deal with our struggles changes so many aspects in us,like, how we talk.act,think,do things,behave around people, among others.It also instills in us a variety of qualities and values like trust,love, honesty,faithfulness etc.Either this will leave you   good person or another bad ass.

2. People
 People,People,people are different so is the impact they leave in our lives.These kind of people include our families,friends, relatives, neighbors,acquaintances,workmates,schoolmates,i mean just everybody even the ones you don't even know.People change you in different ways,others give you that good advice,other's gossip about you,love you,others pretenders and hypocrites,liars,egocentric etc. If you come across good people,thank GOD,but the bad one's that hurt you and break you up completely,do away with them,for good,i mean it,they are satanic and destructive,run my friend,run

So after a little soul searching,i came to a point of agreement that life's too short to be filled with angst ,life's too precious to listen to mediocre's and vagabonds full of negative energy.Life's about finding that happiness within yourself,that whatever challenges your going through,you will triumph at the end,you will achieve that success that you wanted,you will laugh,play.love,sing and you will be filled with happiness,all the desolate feelings will wash away and at that moment you will realize your PURPOSE AND WORTHINESS.Be happy,be happy and more happy....Love XX.

Don't worry, be happy!

SIGNS OF TRUE FRIENDSHIP

So am back,its been long since i wrote a post...i have been busy doing things here there that i hardly had time ,not even for myself.Today i want to write about one of the most essential topics "Friendship".

I guess everyone has that someone they call a friend.People have friends for different reasons and purposes.We have those friend who fill us with the latest gossip,those whop advise us when in different circumstances and situations,those who we party with,those who are just "there" haha...........you know....those who we study with....high school friends,campus friends,childhood friends  etc.among all these,there is always a level in which each and every friendship is.There is a level in which the level of friendship is very intimate and close and that level where someone is just like

an acquintance.

True friendship is based among so many values and qualities.A true friend is that someone who is loyal,who you can always count on no matter what situation it is,someone responsible,supportive,always offers a shoulder to cry on,someone to talk to,tell stories and laugh so loudly,one with a beautiful soul,who protects you and is there when there is rain and sunshine,one you know your secrets are safe with

I could go on and on but we all know it is difficult almost impossible to get or find a person with all this values,we could search and search but no one is perfect.So while you make friends strive to know each and every quality of those friends,so you can be able to chose which one's to keep close and other's as acquintances.

And you as a person try to be that someone's friend who at least has some of these qualities.Be someone's back watch and backup,be a true friend,we all need it sometime..............Happy reading.............stay focused.......stay fabulous.......be a friend..................love..love.. xoxo

greatfulness

i don't have much to say today..i just want to thank God for everyone who reads my posts and also for everything He has done for me..all of these ideas i have is coz of God and all the  things i have is coz of Him,my family,friends,opportunities he has presented,i give Him all praise and glory....i thank Him and i'll continue to ask for His blessings...stay blessed everyone...love..love

Gladys Knight: FRIDAY....NIGHTLIFE...WEEKEND IN THE CITY...So it...

Gladys Knight: FRIDAY....NIGHTLIFE...WEEKEND IN THE CITY...
So it...: FRIDAY....NIGHTLIFE...WEEKEND IN THE CITY... So its finally Friday...a much anticipated day..for so many people..the hustlers..market peo...

FRIDAY!!!...NIGHTLIFE...WEEKEND IN THE CITY...

So its finally Friday...a much anticipated day..for so many people..the hustlers..market people..the cube workers...civil servants..self employed...students..I mean almost everybody.

Its that time to relax...have fun...you know..just doing unproductive things. So, just like everybody else, I wasted the whole afternoon doing random things and watching music videos on YouTube.

I step out into my balcony...phone in my hand...just in case I get an inviting text...its almost five...from my viewpoint, which is exactly a few metres  from  Moi Drive...and from here, I can see there is a small traffic jam....the buses with motherloads of passengers, NYPD, that is "Umoinner" are hooting so loudly...the conductors...are busy shuffling more passengers into the bus while the passengers inside the bus are struggling to get out...its rush hour...the worst time in this city...parents, children from school...all kind of people stream...allover...some cannot wait to get into the comfort of their homes...

It gets dark finally...I go back inside the house...I make supper...call my sweetheart...its time to have some fun...so I adorn that little black dress...call a cab...and off we zoom off to celebrate...What?...I don't exactly know...as we cruise across the city...I cant help but admire the city at night...its sparkling...a city under stars...that's a cliche...I think I got from...God knows where...

* * ...to be continued * *

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Gladys Knight: i love black..so in this weather something ligh...

Gladys Knight:


i love black..so in this weather something ligh...: i love black..so in this weather something light is good to wear during the day...i tried and it worked out perfectly

THE PAIN..THE DRAMA..THE CONFUSION....AND NEW BEGGININGS

I sit down and wipe a tear..the last tear...i say
Its been too long.....its time to end this insanity
So slowly and surely..i take my wounded self...
And my inner being renews my strength....a beam of light..
My hopes renewed by the sense that am more than what i think and perceive to be..
Am a soldier drawn between a battlefield of failure and success..


With my gifts and strengths,my inspiration,my dreams,my goals,my purpose,my confidence and self esteem
I remember my best friend's Gilfex's words "Define your destiny and always smile to the world"
So i stand up firmly and smile broadly..held up my head high....and say...its a new beggining

Look Up

THE AFRICAN SETTING....OF DASHED HOPES AND DREAMS

 So the morning cock crows,i turn and toss

On my bed of straws and half eaten grass

I open my eyes in a slow motion kind of way..its another day..another sunrise

Just as usual i say my prayers,coz as its said God for us all and man for himself

After that i slowly get my tired and worn out body,my hand so full of blisters and black as coal...my heels cracked and dry...

M y hair full of lice and dirt..

My forehead..dark and hard..having seen the better and bitter part of the scorching sun..

I put on my rag like clothes....splash the only thing that seems free around...........water.... on my face

My stomach rumbles..i remember..for a person of my calibre..a meal a day is all i can afford...and yea..its a celebration wen i get to eat twice a day..which i did..yeasterday...

I stop reminscing..back to reality now...i put on my slippers

Walks into the darkness.......

The darkness swallows me up..eats me up...

The darkness..

The darkness that is my life..

The darkness

MORNING GLORY

The air was cool,filled with wisps of water
The grass was wet with dew,the aura of a good day
The birds chirped outside filling the air with their sweet natural melodies
The flowers outside were bright and colourful,there was a rainbow across the sky making the landscape perfect and glorious
The bees buzzed noisily,the butterflies coloured the space
The leaves creaked and fell on the ground making a beautiful carpet
It was a beautiful day...a beautiful morning

so i just sat the whole night..just staring at the computer..looking at random things..thinking about a lot of things...wondering about certain things..

hello.....my name is Gladys but u can call me Knight...im just a simple girl..with lots of love for different things...i love people,life,family,nature,fashion,cars,modelling,writing,reading..among others...i hope i get to meet different people here so that we can share our unique interests